Posts Tagged ‘canyon ranch’

What’s Your Need?

Friday, February 5th, 2010

This is the time of year when we all could use a little boost. It’s early February, much of the country is frozen (especially here in the Northeast) and people are starting to wish out loud for spring. New Year’s resolutions are either firmly in place or just as firmly out of place. Feels like a good time to check in on how I’m caring for myself.

In December, I laid out an entire self-care plan (check it out here).

As I was packing for my Canyon Ranch visit, a phrase echoed through my head: Ho bisogno di . Translated from Italian, it means “I need” . It was all I could think while I was packing:

  • I need this self-care.
  • I need to invest the time, money and energy it takes.
  • I need to recoup and recharge.

My Canyon Ranch time provided all of these things and more (check out the more right here. No one who knows me can believe I actually did this).

So how’s my self-care going now? Pretty good, actually. Here’s what’s working well:

  • My trainer is pushing me twice a week. I’m down almost a pant-size!
  • My husband, dog and I walk 2 or 3 times per week.
  • I’m also training for More Magazine’s Half-Marathon.
  • I’m getting the regular chiropractic care I need.
  • I’ve done additional EMDR sessions which have really helped me.
  • Regular doctor visits and blood-work confirm that I’m nearly perfect (My doctor loves to say “People would kill for your blood-work results.” I hope not.)

So what needs more work?

  • Ironically, my eating is a little off-track. As a nutritionist, it’s easy to fall into the trap of confusing the fact that I know exactly what to eat with what I’m actually eating. It’s been a little more meat, a little more cheese and desserts. So I’ve got my food diary out to keep myself honest.
  • Daily deep breathing has fallen off. I’ve set reminders in my computer’s calendar program to get me back on track.
  • This is a fun one: schedule a massage!

What’s your need? Spend a little time asking yourself this question, then listen to the answer.

Another need of mine? To be involved in a strong wellness community. That’s why I’m grateful for Prevention Not Prescriptions.

I Jumped

Tuesday, December 22nd, 2009

One of my biggest fears is heights. This runs in the family, except for my mom, who is fearless when it comes to heights, roller coasters and the like. The rest of us are big, height-fearing chickens.

So imagine my surprise when I decided it would be fun to do the High Ropes Course at Canyon Ranch. Now, I’ve done other things to face my fear, most commonly hiking scary trails that offer a great chance of falling to my death. My super-smart brother calls this “systematic desensitization”.  Although I never seem to get desensitized; I’m just as scared as before. But as my brother also says “We’re Fletchers” (this is some sort of Scottish, Rob Roy-esque rallying cry), so I had to try it.

With my cousin Robin manning the camera, I started up the ladder. And stopped. For a long time. Eventually, this seemed like it would be all I could do that day. I can’t remember what propelled me to resume climbing, but I did.

I reached the first platform, which is about 26 feet high. And stopped. For another long time, it seemed like this would be all I could do that day. Then the voice of the guide on the upper platform said “Eventually, you’ll have to make your way up to me.” Honestly, the only thing that got me up there was knowing I would be more scared to climb down the ladder than climb up. Sometimes fear helps you.

Finally I reached the top platform, 35 feet up in the air. Now, this doesn’t sound too high as I write it; but if we’d had a video camera, I’m positive we’d see that my shaking legs caused the entire structure to vibrate.

Once I reached the top, I felt a real sense of accomplishment. I was so proud of this incredible win, that I gave myself permission to abort mission and climb back down the ladder. I looked in gratitude at the guides who got me up there and to my cousin who was quietly and supportively freezing her hands while taking pictures of me.

And then, I jumped.

The climb up

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The jump down

Sheer panic

How I’m Staying Healthy Through The Holidays & Beyond

Monday, November 16th, 2009

leaf over waterThis has been a tough year for me physically. I’ve struggled with pain and fatigue symptoms that have so far defied a specific name despite my healthcare providers’ best efforts. At this point, I have to say I believe the cause is: neglect.

As I look back on this year, I realize I haven’t been walking my talk. I give all kinds of great advice to my clients that helps them take care of themselves, but I haven’t taken care of myself. Everything else comes first: my husband, my dog, my work, my home. If you’re a woman reading this, you’re very likely nodding your head thinking “Amen, sister!” Women tend to put themselves on the back-burner.

For me, that’s all changed.

I’m calling my approach “Team Lisa“. I’m the captain, and I’ve recruited trusted friends and advisers to join my team. We’ve outlined a weekly plan that focuses solely on caring for me. It’s intense, but at this point, it’s needed. Included in the game plan:

  • Walking with my husband and dog two mornings a week
  • Working out with a personal trainer two mornings a week
  • Regular chiropractic care
  • Regular massages
  • Daily deep breathing
  • Vegetarian eating
  • Regular visits to my doctor who wants nothing more than for me to get some sleep
  • Visits to my therapist for talk therapy and EMDR. EMDR deserves a blog entry all its own, but I’ll whet your appetite by testifying that EMDR ended my 25-year run with night terrors, as well as shattered some distorted beliefs that have held me back. I’m a big fan.
  • The weeks I don’t see her in person, I call my therapist and she asks me if I’ve kept my specific commitments to myself, holding me accountable.

My husband wins the MVP award for the best gift I’m getting this year: a visit to the Canyon Ranch resort. I love Canyon Ranch as much as I love breathing. One night, I laid my cards on the table, saying “I checked the off-season rates, and Robin can go with me to make it cheaper, and I’m working really hard on my health, and I really really really want to go.” My husband replied (and I believe I married him in anticipation of this moment) “That sounds like a good idea.” So I’m off to the Ranch the week before Christmas!

All of this intense self-care is required now because I’ve done a lousy job of caring for myself ongoing. It’s like maintenance for your car. If you don’t change the oil regularly, you’ll fork over a fortune to fix the engine. Same thing here.

Think about your own self-care: are you doing all that you could? What one thing do you wish you could do more? What works well for you? I’d love to read your comments.

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